This kind of fearful hemming and hawing isn't how Christians should do things. I'm not saying that in deference to antiquated courtship rituals. You need a passion, something that excites you and gives your life meaning and purpose.
By all means, don't ask a person out just because you think he or she is cute but know nothing else about them. I often get the questions: Figuring that out is the easy part.You're exploring the possibility of a relationship with one person.If it doesn't work out, God's love will take care of you far more than the love of any human on earth.It's most important to stay objective, to avoid getting attached too quickly. This way you'll spend enough time with a man to know he's truly worth releasing your other suitors.In fact, I'm a big fan of dating multiple guys until you get to exclusivity with one. The problem is, when trying to determine which man is best, women typically focus on the negative.